How Nigerian Teachers Can Use AI to Cut Lesson Prep Time in Half

Lesson preparation and planning eats into evenings and weekends that most Nigerian teachers simply don’t have to spare: between marking, extra classes, and often a second job to make ends meet. The good news: AI tools for teachers have matured well past the gimmicky chatbot stage, and are now genuinely useful for the unglamorous parts of teaching prep, including schemes of work, lesson notes, differentiated worksheets, and slides, without replacing the judgment that makes a lesson actually land with students.

Here’s a practical breakdown of what to use, and how to use it, without burning your data bundle.

Start with the tools that don’t need a subscription

You don’t need a paid platform to get real value. Three tools cover almost everything a Nigerian classroom teacher needs for weekly prep:

ChatGPT or Gemini (free tier): Both handle the bulk of lesson note writing. Give either one your topic, class level, and curriculum (WAEC, NECO, or NERDC scheme of work), and ask for a full lesson note: objectives, introduction, presentation steps, evaluation questions, and assignment. YOU WILL STILL NEED TO EDIT; AI drafts are a starting point, not a finished lesson.

NotebookLM: Upload your syllabus, past questions, or a textbook chapter and ask it to summarise, generate discussion questions, or build a quick quiz from the material. Because it only works from what you upload, it’s less likely to invent facts than a general chatbot, which is useful when you’re prepping around a specific WAEC/JAMB syllabus section.

Canva AI (Magic Design): Turn your lesson note into a slide deck or a printable worksheet in minutes. Especially useful for visual subjects like Biology diagrams, Geography maps, or English comprehension passages.

MagicSchool AI is worth the extra step if you teach full time

MagicSchool has become one of the most widely used AI platforms built specifically for teachers, bundling over 80 tools for lesson plans, rubrics, worksheets, and parent communication into one interface, with a free tier that covers the core tools (see this comparison of AI tools for teachers). The catch for Nigerian teachers: it’s built around US curriculum language, so you’ll need to manually swap in WAEC/NECO or NERDC terms and topics. Still, for teachers handling multiple subjects or classes, the time saved on differentiation and critical thinking is significant.

A prompt structure that actually works

Vague prompts get vague lesson notes. Use this structure instead:

“Create a [duration] minute lesson note for SS2 [subject] on [topic], following the NERDC/WAEC scheme of work. Include: learning objectives, a 5 minute introduction/hook, step by step presentation of content, 3 evaluation questions, and one homework task. Keep language appropriate for a Nigerian public secondary school classroom.”

Being specific about class level, curriculum, and setting is what separates a usable lesson note from a generic one you have to rewrite anyway.

Build a weekly rhythm, not a one off habit

The teachers getting the most out of these tools aren’t using AI for every single lesson; they’re using it strategically:

  • Sunday or Monday: Generate the week’s lesson notes in one batch using ChatGPT or Gemini
  • Midweek: Use NotebookLM to build a quick revision quiz from that week’s content
  • Before tests: Use Canva AI to turn notes into a one page visual summary for revision

This keeps AI use contained to planning time, rather than something you’re fighting with mid lesson.

Two things to watch for

Always verify facts and figures. AI tools can confidently generate incorrect dates, formulas, or historical details. Cross check anything going into a lesson note against your textbook or the official WAEC/NERDC syllabus before you teach it.

Mind your data. ChatGPT, Gemini, and Canva all work fine on 3G, but image generation and long documents burn through data fast. Draft your prompts in a notes app first, then send them in one go rather than going back and forth online.

The bottom line

AI won’t write a lesson that connects with your specific class; it doesn’t know your students. What it will do is take the blank page problem off your plate, so the hour you’d have spent starting from scratch becomes twenty minutes of editing something that already has structure. For teachers juggling large classes and thin resources, that’s real time back.

Have you tried any of these tools in your classroom? Share what’s worked (or flopped) for you in the comments.

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Nigeria Just Took On Google, Meta, and AI Giants — Here’s Why It Matters for You

If you’ve been scrolling tech news this month, you may have caught a story that’s bigger than it first looks. Nigeria has ordered an investigation into major technology companies and generative AI platforms over allegations that they’ve used the country’s news content without paying for it fairly. President Bola Tinubu directed the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission (FCCPC) to look into a petition from the Nigerian Press Organisation — a coalition of newspaper publishers, broadcasters, and journalists — accusing companies like Meta, Google, X, and unnamed AI platforms of weakening competition and eroding the survival of Nigerian news outlets.

It sounds like a media industry problem. It isn’t. Here’s why every Nigerian tech user, student, and small business owner should be paying attention.

The Real Story: Who Profits From Nigerian Content?

Nigerian newsrooms do the expensive work — reporting, fact-checking, editing. But increasingly, that work feeds directly into AI chatbots and search summaries that answer your questions without you ever clicking through to the original article. When that happens at scale, the publishers who created the value get squeezed out of the money.

This isn’t just about journalism, either. It’s the same question hanging over every Nigerian creator, blogger, and small tech business right now: when a foreign platform builds a product on top of local content and data, who actually captures the value?

Nigeria Isn’t the First to Fight This Battle

Other countries have already tested different approaches, and the results were mixed:

  • Australia forced platforms to negotiate through its News Media Bargaining Code. Google threatened to pull search from the country and Meta briefly yanked news off Facebook — but public pressure won out, and Australian publishers eventually secured large payouts.
  • Canada tried something similar, but Meta simply removed news from Facebook and Instagram entirely rather than pay up, and hasn’t reversed course.
  • South Africa took a quieter, evidence-based route through its Competition Commission, studying the ad market before asking Google for specific support — avoiding a full-blown political fight.

Nigeria is entering this fight later than these countries, which could actually work in its favor. Regulators here get to see what worked and what backfired before writing the rulebook.

Why This Matters for Nigeria’s Tech Economy

A few angles worth thinking about:

  1. This is part of a bigger regulatory pattern. Nigeria’s tech authorities have been getting more assertive: from FCCPC’s past clash with Meta over data practices to NITDA’s platform compliance rules. Big Tech is being told, increasingly clearly, that operating in Nigeria comes with local obligations.
  2. AI training data has real economic value and Nigeria is beginning to notice. If AI platforms are quietly built on Nigerian journalism, Nigerian languages, and Nigerian data without compensation, that’s value leaving the local economy. This case could set a precedent for how AI companies are expected to deal with local content going forward.
  3. It could reshape how you discover news and information. If platforms respond the way Meta did in Canada, Nigerians could see news disappear from certain feeds. If it goes the Australia route, expect negotiated deals and possibly better-funded local newsrooms.
  4. It’s a signal to Nigerian creators and businesses too. Whether you run a blog, a YouTube channel, or a small tech business, the underlying question “does the platform economy fairly reward local creators?” applies far beyond news publishing.

The Bottom Line

This investigation isn’t just a policy story for journalists to worry about. It’s an early signal of how Nigeria plans to deal with global tech power more broadly and how much leverage local creators and businesses might eventually have over the platforms that profit from their work. Whichever way the FCCPC’s findings go, it’s worth watching closely: the outcome could shape how AI companies treat African content for years to come.

What do you think? should Big Tech and AI companies pay Nigerian publishers for the content that powers their platforms? Let us know in the comments.


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Apple September 2026 Event: What Nigerian Buyers Need to Know — iPhones, Foldable & Prices

Every September, Apple takes the stage and the internet goes into a frenzy. This year promises to be one of the biggest yet — and if you’re a tech-savvy Nigerian, here’s everything you need to know about what Apple is expected to announce and what it could mean for your pocket.

When is the Apple September 2026 Event?

Apple has not officially confirmed the date yet, but based on their consistent annual calendar, the September 2026 iPhone event is widely expected to fall in the week of September 7 — possibly September 8 or 9. Apple keynotes typically begin at 10:00 AM Pacific Time, which translates to 6:00 PM Nigerian time (WAT). Mark your calendar.

What Apple is Expected to Announce

📱 iPhone 18 Pro — the camera upgrade you’ve been waiting for

The iPhone 18 Pro is shaping up to be a serious camera beast. Rumours point to a variable aperture main lens — similar to how a DSLR camera works — giving you more control over depth of field and low-light shots. It will reportedly run Apple’s new A20 Pro chip, built on a 2nm process, making it faster and more efficient than any iPhone before it. A smaller Dynamic Island and a rumoured dark cherry colour option round things out.

📲 The foldable iPhone — Apple finally goes foldable

This is the headline announcement everyone has been waiting for. Apple is reportedly launching its first-ever foldable iPhone, rumoured to be called the “iPhone Fold” or “iPhone Ultra.” Here’s what makes it exciting:

  • A 5.3-inch external screen that unfolds into a 7.6-inch internal display
  • Book-style fold design — think a small iPad mini when open
  • Just 4.5mm thin when unfolded — incredibly slim
  • Advanced hinge tech designed to nearly eliminate the crease

⌚ Apple Watch Series 12 & more

Alongside the iPhones, a new Apple Watch Series 12 is expected. There are also rumours of updated HomePod and Apple TV models, and potentially iPad and iPad mini refreshes.

What Does This Mean for Nigerian Buyers?

💸 Brace for the Naira price

Here’s the honest truth: buying Apple products in Nigeria has never been cheap, and 2026 is unlikely to be different. With the Naira still under pressure against the dollar, expect prices at authorised Nigerian retailers like iStore, Slot, and 3CHub to reflect the exchange rate at time of import.

As a rough guide — if the iPhone 18 Pro starts at $999 in the US, you could be looking at somewhere in the region of ₦1.6 million to ₦1.9 million or more, depending on exchange rates and import duties at the time of Nigerian launch. The foldable iPhone will likely start at a premium above that — possibly $1,499 or more in the US, translating to well over ₦2 million locally.

🛍️ Grey market vs. authorised retail

Many Nigerians purchase iPhones through the grey market — buyers bringing devices from the UK, US, or Dubai. This often makes phones cheaper but comes with no official warranty. If you want to be among the first to get the new iPhones in Nigeria, start saving now and decide whether you’ll go official retail or grey market.

🌍 Is the foldable iPhone worth it for Nigeria?

Probably not as a day-one purchase. Foldable phones are still a relatively new category, and the price premium is massive. However, if you’re a content creator, business person, or power user who could genuinely benefit from a large screen in your pocket, it’s worth keeping an eye on reviews before deciding.

How to Watch the Apple Event Live from Nigeria

You can stream the September event live at 6:00 PM WAT on:

We’ll be covering the event live on this blog — bookmark this page and follow us for real-time updates and a Nigerian buyer’s breakdown of everything Apple announces.


Are you planning to upgrade to iPhone 18 or waiting to see the foldable? Drop your thoughts in the comments below!

Sources: Apple Newsroom | Apple Events | MacRumors | Macworld

Top 5 Ways AI is Changing the World in 2025


Introduction

Artificial intelligence (AI) is no longer just a topic for scientists and tech experts; it is now a part of everyday life. From helping students learn faster to making our food safer, AI is quietly transforming the world around us. In this article, we break down the top 5 ways AI is changing the world and why it matters to you.

According to the Stanford AI Index Report 2025, AI is now deeply embedded in sectors like education, finance, and healthcare, with its influence on society growing stronger every year.


1. Education — Empowering Teachers and Students with AI

Imagine a classroom where every student gets a lesson designed just for them and every teacher has a smart assistant helping them plan, teach, and assess. That is exactly what AI is making possible today.

For Teachers: Lesson Preparation Made Easy

One of the biggest challenges teachers face is spending hours preparing lesson plans, worksheets, and assessments. AI is changing that. Tools like MagicSchool AI and Eduaide.Ai allow teachers to generate full lesson plans, rubrics, quizzes, and differentiated materials for different learning levels; all in minutes. A teacher who used to spend three hours preparing a week’s worth of lessons can now do it in under thirty minutes.

AI also helps teachers write better assessment questions. Instead of crafting multiple choice questions or essay prompts from scratch, a teacher can simply describe the topic and let AI generate a variety of question types; saving time and improving quality at the same time.

For Teachers: Smarter Assessment of Learners

Grading and tracking student progress is another area where AI shines. Platforms like Formative and Gradescope use AI to automatically grade assignments, highlight common mistakes across the class, and give teachers a clear picture of where each student is struggling. This means teachers can spend less time marking and more time actually teaching.

AI can also identify patterns. For example, it can notice that 70% of students in a class are struggling with the same concept; allowing the teacher to address it immediately rather than waiting until exam results come in. That kind of insight used to take weeks to uncover. Now it takes seconds.

For Students: Personalized Learning Anytime

For students, AI tools like Khan Academy’s Khanmigo and ChatGPT act as personal tutors available at any hour. They adapt to each student’s pace; explain concepts in different ways; and provide instant feedback. Something a single teacher in a large classroom cannot always do.

According to Unified AI Hub, spending on AI in education is expected to surpass $32 billion by 2030, meaning more tools, more access, and more opportunities for both teachers and students everywhere.

What this means for you: If you are a teacher, try MagicSchool AI; it is free and will save you hours every week. If you are a student, use ChatGPT or Khanmigo to get help with any subject at any time of day.


2. Healthcare: Saving Lives with Smarter Diagnosis

Doctors are now using AI to detect diseases earlier and more accurately than ever before. AI systems can scan medical images (X-rays, MRIs, and ultrasounds) and spot signs of cancer, heart disease, or infection that a human eye might miss.

The US AI healthcare market is projected to grow from $7.72 billion in 2024 to nearly $100 billion by 2033. For everyday people, AI health apps are already helping with monitoring blood pressure; tracking fitness; and detecting early signs of mental health issues. All from your smartphone.

What this means for you: Free apps like Ada Health use AI to help you understand your symptoms before visiting a doctor.


3. Finance: Protecting Your Money and Making It Grow

Whether you are saving, investing, or simply spending, AI is working behind the scenes to keep your money safe. Banks use AI to detect fraudulent transactions in seconds. If someone tries to use your card in an unusual way, AI flags it immediately; alerts are sent; and the transaction is blocked before any damage is done.

AI is also making investing more accessible. Robo-advisors can now manage investments automatically; giving everyday people access to financial strategies once only available to the wealthy. According to research, banking AI could contribute up to $2 trillion to the global economy in the coming years.

What this means for you: Use AI budgeting apps to manage your income; track your expenses; and start building healthy financial habits today.


4. Food: Making What We Eat Safer and More Sustainable

AI is transforming the way food is grown, distributed, and checked for safety. Farmers are using AI-powered drones and sensors to monitor crops; detect plant diseases early; and reduce pesticide use. The result is healthier food for everyone on the table.

On the safety side, AI systems scan products in factories faster than human inspectors, catching contaminated items before they reach shelves. According to a ScienceDirect study on AI and food safety, AI is being integrated into smart agriculture and supply chain management to revolutionize food production.

The World Economic Forum also reports that AI is enabling personalized nutrition; helping people get dietary advice tailored to their own body and lifestyle.

What this means for you: AI nutrition apps can help you make smarter food choices based on your personal health goals. No dietitian required.


5. Safety and Security: Protecting Communities and People

AI works around the clock to keep people safe; from detecting cybersecurity threats to predicting natural disasters before they strike. In the digital world, AI tools protect us from scams, phishing emails, and online fraud every single day.

The National Academies of Sciences notes that AI tools are increasingly being developed to enhance biosecurity and protect communities from emerging threats. Governments, businesses, and individuals are all benefiting from this protection; often without even realising it.

What this means for you: Your bank’s fraud detection and Google’s spam filters are already powered by AI; protecting you right now without you even noticing.


Final Thoughts

AI is not some distant future technology; it is here right now, making real differences in education, health, money, food, and safety. The best part? Most of these tools are free or affordable, meaning anyone (students and teachers included) can take advantage of them today.

At EduTechHub, our mission is to help you understand and use these tools to get ahead. Subscribe to our website at https://edutechhub.school.blog as well our YouTube channel for weekly tutorials on the best AI tools and tech tips; completely free.

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Top Teaching Skills

Top Teaching Skills

Communication
A huge part of teaching is communicating information. It might be verbal, written, or via any other route from practical demonstrations to artistic interpretation – whatever gets your point across.

Patience
People learn at all different rates. If you have to explain something seven times in seven different ways before it sticks, that’s just part of the job. And when faced with challenging behaviour, you need to stay calm and patient and not lose your temper.

Creativity
People learn best when they’re doing something fun and interesting. It’s up to you to be creative in your approach, finding novel and enjoyable ways for your students to learn.

Enthusiasm
Your enthusiasm is infectious. If you love your subject and your job, you’ll be able to engage the people you teach.

Confidence
Children can smell fear… no, just kidding. Confidence helps you when you’re standing up and directing a class, whether your students are kids or adults. A lot of education sector jobs involve public speaking, so confidence is a must.

Dedication
There’s no denying that teaching can be tough at times. If you’re dedicated to helping your students succeed, you’ll be able to keep up your energy levels and avoid getting discouraged.

Conflict Resolution
Especially in secondary schools, this can be a big part of the job. If you can defuse tense situations before they explode, you be able to handle it when teenagers upset each other or test your authority.

Organisation
If you’re a schoolteacher, organisation skills will help you to fit marking and lesson planning around your school hours, and file and reuse the resources you develop.

Leadership
Teachers need to be able to lead a classroom and inspire confidence in their students. They also need to be able to deal with lots of different students with different, and sometimes competing needs. If you’re not a natural-born leader, don’t worry, leadership is a skill you can develop.

Adaptability
Working in teaching can present challenges on a daily basis. While these keep the career exciting, a certain amount of adaptability is important. You may have a great lesson plan, only to realise you need to switch gears depending on the level of understanding your students have.

Read how to develop these skills from the blog- https://www.brightnetwork.co.uk/career-path-guides/education-teaching/key-skills/

Bring Your ‘A’ Game to School

Welcome Back to School! You want to bring your ‘A’ game to school in order to get the best out of each day.

I hope that the holiday was restful and that you are rejuvenated and ready for the new session. Teachers, parents and students alike are all getting back to the school routine and it can sometimes be a stressful transition. Here are a few tips to help you bring your ‘A-game’ throughout the new term.

10 Ways to Bring your ‘A’ Game to School

Start preparing the day before: Taking a few minutes in the evening to prepare for the coming day is a great idea. Set out your outfit and sleep early, absolutely nothing beats an early night and an easy morning.

Aim to get in early: Getting in early can be the difference between a great day and an okay day. The few minutes before rush hour allow you settle into the work space and environment. You can use the time to go over your lesson plan again and set everything in place. The pupils too get to adjust and get in the right mood for school before activities begin.

Make a to-do list: A to-do list sets your work flow and helps you work stress free. The night before or immediately you get in to work is a good time to make your list. Prioritizing the more complex duties allows you get them done while you are still at your optimum.

Do not take on more than you can chew: Not over tasking yourself is important if you are going to bring your A game to work. Try not to say yes to more task if you already have a lot on your table so that you can avoid burning out. Also, do not overburden the pupils with homework, they too can burnout.

Give credit where credit is due: If someone does something for you or brings up an idea that helps your work please credit them. You do not want to be sidelined so try not to sideline other people, including your pupils. Be an example of what you want…

Tips for the New Academic Year

Hurray!! We’re at that time ⌚ of the year when we need to put everything in place for the take-off of a new academic session. As administrators, we have a vital role to play in this. Even though some planning for the new school year was done before you closed for the outgone school year, this period affords the opportunity to tidy things up for resumption.

Here are a few tips to help you as an administrator.

  1. Communicate the Resumption Date to Parents and Staff

Even though the resumption date for the new school year had been communicated in the last newsletter for the last school year, there is a need to do a reminder on this using bulk sms and emails. You can also do so through the school’s social media platforms.

The date the teachers are expected to resume school would be different from that of the students. This is to enable adequate time for professional development and to decorate the classrooms and get things set ready for the arrival of the students.

I’m sure you do not want excuses from teachers about the resumption date. It’ll be too early in the school year for this.

  1. Organise Training Sessions for the Teachers

There is a need to invest in the personal and professional development of your staff before the school year commences. I assume that in the performance evaluation of the staff, you must have taken note of the areas that need improvement in your school as a corporate body, and also in individual staff members, and prepared the training to address them.

Topics to include in your training would be Professional Ethics for Educators, Classroom and Behaviour Management, Customer Service, Emotional Intelligence, Team Building, and a host of others. Do not schedule more than two training sessions in a day to make for effectiveness. There is no need to drain the staff at the beginning of the academic year with knowledge or information that may be rather overwhelming each day, and difficult to apply.

You can never go wrong with investing in the personal and professional development of your employees.

  1. Ensure All Teachers Know their Class Placements

You might have sent out a class placement already before going on the summer break. But this is the time to confirm what class each teacher would be taking in the new academic session, to enable them to prepare and decorate their classes. I’m sure you know how eager teachers geet about what classes they’d be teaching in a new school year.

  1. Start Class and School Area Decorations

After the teachers have been assigned to their classes, they need to start decorating their classes to prepare for the children’s arrival. Decoring the classes and school areas also creates a welcoming environment for prospective parents who would be stopping by to make enquiries for enrollment of their children in your school. Plus it has a way of pepping up the moods of the staff while they work and train.

How prepared is your child for primary school?

10 things your 5 year olds should know before heading off to primary school.

They should be able to;

  1. Say and read their full name.
  2. Write their full names on their worksheets and, sign in for school activities unaided.
  3. Orally state their home address, read and possibly write it.
  4. Recite, write or dail both parents mobile numbers or an emergency number if need be. Parents ought to seriously take teaching this to their children. Better safe than sorry!
  5. Capable of feeding themselves, refill their cup/ bottle and clean up after meal.
  6. Undress before and after using the restroom and clean up throughly afterwards.
  7. Share their opinion in a group, talk in front of their class and confidently express self.
  8. Tie their shoe lace, buckle their footwear, wear their footwear in correct order : This life skill should be embodied early as it is useful throughout life.
  9. Read and follow instructions of task and copy notes from the board.
  10. Unpack bag/ lunch box, sort/ classify items accordingly, arrange/ organise desk/ locker and pack up books/ personal belonging before leaving for home daily.

Dear Parents if you can tick off all ten items, then your 5 year old is ready to embark on the next phase of their educational voyage. Less than 5 ticks means you have some grounds to cover ahead of next academic session.

Today is a good time to commence teaching them those things that they are yet to master.

I hope you found this list useful.

Before you Increase School Fees, Consider These

Questions:- “The schools around my environment are increasing their FEE. I am the only SCHOOL with less school FEES, should I increase mine too? I’m confused.

My response:-

When you grow to a stage where your shoes no longer size you, you will know.

Don’t join in the bandwagon effect of increasing your school FEES when it’s not yet time.

First, grow your landscape of the 3S.

✓ Service
✓ Solution
✓ Sales.

(In my previous post, I explain how these 3S’s can produce result in school enrollment. If you haven’t read it, kindly search for it here).

Don’t increase your school FEE when there is nothing increasing as VALUE in your school settings.

Increment responds to additional value added to the school that needs more money to run.

If your school just acquire new set of computers, new school bus, new furnitures, standard library etc; all of these are VALUE added to the school which will affect school FEE increment.

Now, back to you:-

What has just been added to your school as VALUE that can bring about INCREMENT in school FEES?

Instead of looking for ways to increase your school FEES, find ways to increase your school VALUE and it will automatically drive increment.

Your production of value will automatically bring INCREMENT in sales.

Your competitors are not the reasons you are in business but your clients, focus on them.

Once your clients are SATISFIED with your SERVICES, no matter the increment, THEY WILL COME BACK.

Create EXPERIENCE in the heart of your PARENTS.

An HAPPY CLIENT IS A PAYING CLIENT.❗

Hope this meets you WELL? 🤝

Yours truly
JUBRIL OLUWATOBI

The SWOT Analysis

Do a (SWOT) analysis on Your Kids Before You Crucified Them

S = STRENGTH
W = WEAKNESS
O = OPPORTUNITIES
T = THREATS

I have tried several times since yesterday not to talk about this, but there’s a crawcraw in my hand that keeps pushing me.

I was on my way home yesterday when I stopped by a woman’s shop to buy groundnut. I had bought this fresh banana and the only thing that kept ringing in my head after I bought it was groundnut, groundnut, almost like a nursery rhyme. Yeah, dinner was going to be a bomb! Who says good life must necessarily come expensive? Tueh!

I got to her shop, horned severally but there was no response. I was hearing muffled sounds from inside her retail store and knew she was in there. I waited a bit inside the car, too tired to get out and then shouted her name. ‘Mummy Sewa, se e wa ninu shop?’. Chai! Still no response o. I was already close to the house and had passed several supermarts. I hated buying groundnuts from those big stores bcos most of the time, it’s stale and no longer sweet as it should be. But Mummy Sewa’s own is always fresh and yummy.

Anyways, I finally got down, went into her shop, saw no one, then went in to the backyard. Some few steps from there, I started hearing Tazai, kpokam, whai, voom and a loud wailing from a small lad. Mummy please, please, I will take 1st next term. Plsss, I will not be watching TV again… Haha. Which kain wahala be this? I ran closer to the woman, blocked the boy and a whip almost landed on my back. I was madly enraged and almost landed her a slap. How dare you suffer a young child like this? Is this not the way parents unconsciously groom potential abusers? Is this what will make him be at the top position next term?

Mummy Sharon, please leave o. I must kill him today. He came 13th in his class after all my wahala on him. Shebi you know his dad has left all of us since and I’ve been the one suffering day and night. Haaa yeeeee. I must finish him o. All he does is watch TV and play ball. Nothing else.

Take it easy Ma. I told her, but she wouldn’t hear none of it. She was still shaking and vibrating like a rickety agbegilodo.

Oya, kill him na. You go soon kamdan now. What was your own grade when you were his age? By the time he lands in the hospital, I’m sure your Apollo eyes will clear. I was starting to boil up myself.

Afterwards, I told the boy to follow me in my car, left both the groundnut and the seller and zoomed off. Mission groundnut aborted!

I don’t know why Parents do this shit.

The first time I caught my son teaching his elder sister her maths assignment, I was shell-shocked. As in Se owo oti jona bayi? Sharon hated mathematics with every fibre in her and never seem to get it right. I was tempted to shout on her then but I always manage to keep my calm. Unlike Simon, she has never been first before in her class but I always encouraged her. Later I began to realise her strength and area of core competency- English. She can spell any word. She can read anything, She can narrate a whole book from beginning to ending without mincing words. She loves to dance Salsa. She likes to sing. She still hates Maths but she’s getting better. And last Session, she got the overall best in English in her grade.

We can’t all be good at everything.

Our kids can’t be the best at everything.

We need to be close to them to learn where their strengths lie.

The case of the 12 year old boy who tried to poison his fellow classmate at Lekki British international school just because he was coveting the first position always play in my mind. Who knows what the root cause is? Who knows if he was under pressure from home to get the slot otherwise they won’t take him for a vacation in Bahamas or buy him his dream bicycle or whatever…..

The pressure Parents put their kids through ehn….. You must be a doctor, you must be a lawyer, I want you to become a Pilot, an Engineer. Bla Bla Bla

Will you keep kwayet there!

We need to realise being at the first, second or third position does not guarantee success in life. Intelligence, hardwork, creative instincts all covered with Grace does.

I graduated with a Second Class upper in Computer Engineering (even though Dad did everything to make sure I studied Medicine). I have MSCE, CCNP and CompTIA certifications. By God’s grace, I have an online MSC degree. I have an OAU MBA degree. But I’m using none at my present place of work. Even with all these, I have friends who graduated with a third Class or Pass doing way way better than me. I see them and I’m grateful to God for His grace upon their lives. I feel they’ve achieved much more.

But then, what is the measure of achievement? Is it quantified in monetary terms alone? Is it by the physical assets one has acquired? No! I don’t think so.

What pushes us in life differs.

Some just want to make money.

Some just want to create history.

Some just wanted to break a jinx in their household.

Some just want to be famous

Some just want to put smiles on other people’s faces.

Some just want to be happy.

Some just want to change the status quo in the world we are.

Some just want to get married.

Some just…..

And when they get this, they have achieved all what they wanna fulfil in life. And there’s nothing you can do or say to convince them otherwise.

Let’s stop putting so much pressure on our children. Let’s encourage them to be who they wanna be. Success isn’t measured via academic pursuits alone.

Do a SWOT analysis of your kids. Strength, weakness, opportunities and threats.

Live your dream and let them live theirs. Don’t force the fulfilment of your failed dreams through these innocent souls.

With encouragement, support, prayers, they will be the best in whatever they set out to do.

Back to Mama Sewa’s case, I took the boy back to his house after about an hour and spoke some sense to the mum.

I believe she would have had a change of heart.

No Child is an Olodo! Their position last term doesn’t matter. That is not the only determinant for future success.

May our children be better and greater than us.

Amen!

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